Hindi cinema has often delved into the intricate dynamics of relationships, particularly focusing on the triangular tension between a hu...
Hindi cinema has often delved into the intricate
dynamics of relationships, particularly focusing on the triangular tension
between a husband, wife, and an ex-lover. These films explore the emotional
turmoil, moral dilemmas, and societal pressures faced by individuals caught in
such complex situations. This essay critically examines notable Hindi films
like "Woh 7 Din," "Gharaonda," "Swami," "Hum
Dil De Chuke Sanam," "Prem Kahani," "Faraar," and
"Ijaazat," which poignantly depict the struggle of dealing with past
romantic entanglements within the confines of marriage.
Woh 7 Din, Gharaonda, and Swami: Navigating the
Shadows of the Past
"Woh 7 Din" (1983), directed by Bapu,
presents a poignant tale where the protagonist, Maya, is torn between her
husband and her past lover. The film underscores the emotional conflict and
societal expectations that weigh heavily on her decisions. Maya's journey from
being a spirited young woman in love to a dutiful wife highlights the
sacrifices and compromises often demanded by marriage in traditional Indian
society.
Similarly, "Gharaonda" (1977), directed by
Bhimsain, explores the aspirations and disillusionments of a young couple
trying to build a life together in a city. When the past lover re-enters the
scene, the protagonist's struggle is compounded by the economic and emotional
pressures of urban life. The film’s realistic portrayal of middle-class life
and its challenges adds a layer of complexity to the romantic dilemma.
"Swami" (1977), directed by Basu
Chatterjee, offers a more introspective look at the theme. The protagonist,
Saudamini, finds herself in a marriage arranged by her family, while her heart
yearns for her past lover. The film beautifully captures her internal conflict
and the gradual acceptance of her new life. It reflects on the Indian cultural
ethos where duty often overrides personal desires.
Hum Dil De Chuke Sanam: The Heart's Dilemma
Sanjay Leela Bhansali's "Hum Dil De Chuke
Sanam" (1999) stands out for its opulent portrayal of love and sacrifice.
The film follows Nandini, who is caught between her past love, Sameer, and her
husband, Vanraj. Bhansali’s narrative brings to the fore the intense emotional
struggle and the ultimate act of selflessness as Nandini grapples with her
feelings. The film’s lush visuals and powerful performances underscore the
theme of love’s enduring impact and the noble acceptance of marital duty.
Prem Kahani and Faraar: Love and Law
In "Prem Kahani" (1975) and
"Faraar" (1975), the heroine’s predicament is heightened as her
ex-lover is a fugitive. In "Prem Kahani," directed by Raj Khosla, the
conflict between love and duty is embodied by Rajesh Khanna's character, who is
a revolutionary on the run. The protagonist, played by Mumtaz, is torn between
her love for him and her loyalty to her husband, a police officer. The film’s
historical backdrop and revolutionary theme add a dramatic intensity to the personal
conflict.
"Faraar," directed by Shankar Mukherjee,
similarly places the heroine in a difficult position. Here, the ex-lover’s
criminal past and the husband’s role as a law enforcer create a high-stakes
scenario where personal and professional loyalties collide. Both films explore
the theme of love being tested by external circumstances and the moral dilemmas
faced by the characters.
Ijaazat: The Indelible Presence of the Past
"Ijaazat" (1987), directed by Gulzar,
offers a nuanced and sensitive portrayal of the impact of a past lover on a
married couple. The film, based on Subodh Ghosh's story "Jatugriha,"
follows Mahender and Sudha as they navigate their marriage while dealing with
the lingering presence of Mahender's ex-lover, Maya. The film’s poetic
narrative and evocative music by R.D. Burman underscore the emotional depth and
complexity of the characters' relationships. "Ijaazat" stands out for
its mature handling of themes like forgiveness, acceptance, and the passage of
time.
These films collectively highlight the multifaceted
nature of romantic dilemmas in the context of marriage. Hindi cinema, through
these narratives, reflects societal attitudes towards love, duty, and
individual desires. The portrayal of the past lover’s presence in these films
serves as a catalyst for exploring deeper emotional truths and the resilience
of the human spirit. As these characters navigate their complex relationships,
they embody the universal struggle between the heart's desires and the obligations
imposed by societal norms. Through their stories, Hindi cinema continues to
offer interesting insights into the human condition and the enduring nature of
love.
By Pratik Majumdar (author: Love Coffee Murder and
1975 The Year That Transformed Bollywood)

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