Very few of us really know how to think (including me). While this is a bold statement to make at the start, I’ll just stick to it and I hop...
Very few of us really know how to think (including me). While this is a bold statement to make at the start, I’ll just stick to it and I hope you will too stick to this article till the end, to find out this interesting theory of mine.
You
see, when I say very few of us really know how to think, I mean it. Most of us
just repeat what we have read in a book, or what somebody has told us, or our
thinking is the outcome of our very own limited experience. We compare, judge,
choose, and through this process, we hope to find some reasonable attitude
towards life. But that kind of thinking is very limited, it is confined to a
very small area. Don’t you think so?
We
have an experience like seeing a person perform rituals to please his lord, or
a corpse being carried to the graveyard, or a father kissing the forehead of
his son before dropping him at the school gate – all these impressions are
there, but we are so insensitive that they don’t sink into us and ripen, and it
is only through sensitivity and empathy to everything around us that there is
the beginning of a different kind of thinking which is not limited by our
conditioning. If you hold strongly to some set of beliefs or other, you look at
everything through that particular prejudice or tradition; you don’t have any
contact with reality.
What
happens when you observe something for the first time? You automatically
translate what you see according to your prejudices, don’t you? You experience
it according to your conditioning as a communist, a socialist, a capitalist, or
some other ‘ist’ or whatever. You categorize everything into good or bad, right
or wrong, black or white. Don’t you?
Whereas,
when you don’t look through the screen of any idea or belief but actually have direct contact then you will notice what an extraordinary relationship
there is between you and what you observe. If you have no prejudice, no bias if
you are open then everything around you becomes extraordinarily interesting and
tremendously alive.
The
key to thinking this way is to think beyond good or bad, right or wrong, black or
white. In simple words not to be critical but to just observe with sensitivity.
- - Michael
Joachim Ganpat, Student Correspondent, Kolkata
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